Getting to Know Me, Getting to Know all About Me

16 December 2015

When we set out to find that someone special; the one to spend the rest of our life with, we’re excited at the prospect of getting to know them.

It’s interesting and exciting to get to know what makes a person who they are - to listen to their experiences, about their travels and the things and people they love. How they talk about people is a great insight in their own personality, but what about you getting to know yourself first.

Life is busy; there’s always something demanding our time. How many of us take the time to get to know ourselves? What are the things that have shaped the person you have become? Are there unresolved issues? Now might be the best time you will ever have to find these things out; begin to resolve them and move forward. Are there doors that need to be closed, so that new ones can open?

We don’t live in the past, but we need to look at where we have come from to be able to see where we are going. Have you ever stopped to think what kind of personality you have? Are you an introvert, an extrovert or somewhere in between. What kind of temperament do you have? Do you think you are Sanguine or Melancholic for instance. This is not to put yourself in a box, but to understand ‘you’ and find out a bit more about yourself.

Ask yourself the question. ‘What can I add to someone’s life? ‘Once you can answer that. Have a look at your profile and make any changes. Then get looking; there is someone just waiting to get to know you.